I recently discovered I have a crush on my vet who is twenty years younger than me. Any advice?

Recently I've discovered I have a crush on my vet. We are both married to separate people %26amp; have children. I feel a bit awkward now when I see him when I have to bring my pets in for their checkup. Can he tell if I like him or not? Can I still be friends with him? Of course, I would never do anything to break up someonesmarriage. But I was wondering what it would be like if he was added on Facebook, for example. He's such a nice person.I recently discovered I have a crush on my vet who is twenty years younger than me. Any advice?
Leave him be. Don't be a homewrecker. It's just a silly crush, harmless as long as you don't act on it or take it seriously. If you are having these feelings, I would not suggest friendship. As far as him being able to tell, who knows? You shouldn't be throwing yourself out there or flirting, though, especially not as a grown woman with a husband and kids.I recently discovered I have a crush on my vet who is twenty years younger than me. Any advice?
As a married person why would you even allow your mind to wonder like that? Do you not respect the fact that both you and he are married? Go ahead and ask your husband what he would do in this situation and see how crazy he looks at you across your damn head. Why would you want to hurt him like that. Go ahead and add him to facebook, or see the look on his face when he rejects you. Not everyone is interested in not being faithful to their husband or wife. I am not judging but I am so tired of people not taking their marriage seriously. If I found out my huband was doing some **** like that I would slap the **** out of him and put his *** out. You don't do that to people that love you. You just simply don't. I am sorry but this upsets me. Do what you think is best if you don't value your marriage. You have to live with the outcome not anyone else.
Don't add him, don't go there, one step can ruin 2 peoples lives, and not yours or his, but the people that really love you. Respect him, and respect your family. I know you might feel this urge, i know, but fight it, your family means more, and believe me, he wouldn't want you to add him, it be very ackward. Your husband deserves that respect, and he has a wife he loves. So no, don't add him.
well sammy tobe honest you need to forget that just think about it.


if you were able to hook up with this man when he turned 50


you would either be in a wheal chair are on a walker. so my advise


would be keep all your love at home with your husband and grow old together
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Find another vet. You're both married for crying out loud and you don't even know if he has feelings for you. Snap out of it.
Get a new vet.


Skip the facebook.
Change the vet NOT your family!
Just please don't hurt your dog as an excuse to go see him..other than that.. remember you are married, and so is he.
Are you a guy or a girl? You don't mention that.